About as tactful, and just about as smart. Everywhere else I have to walk on eggshells.
Ask. Prayers, some loose change, a hug. Life is incredibly tough, and sometimes all we have is flesh and faith, everything else having fled.As long as the sun is coming up, the Son has not abandoned you.
Some days we carry ourselves, some days we carry others and some days we need to be carried. This is how we all survive, learn and grow. This is how we learn to live in faith. Commend your burden in prayer and let us know how to help from there. May Our Lord give you strength to endure. Hugs to you.
+1 on Brigid. Nobody ever said we'd have an easy life. Thoughts and prayers.